What is Blocking You From Being Lucky in Love?

Remove all barriers that are holding you back

1. Why should you let go of control?

When going out into the dating world, I want you to be aware that you cannot control the outcome and letting go of that idea will free you and the other person from unnecessary tension. Going into this with a mentality of fun will help you hugely. Trusting in life and believing that you for sure will find the right partner for you is a way of being that will prevent you from being overly disappointed when your love life doesn´t take off immediately. Working on believing that love is happening for you for sure, rather than controlling when or how it is going to happen is where you can put your focus.

2. Why you should NOT look for perfection.

We all are human beings with flaws. There is nothing wrong with knowing what type of person you want to date and what works for you. An issue arises only if you are looking for a rather flawless creature, because they do not exist. We have all come here on a journey of growth, which means we all have our fair share to learn and we do largely learn through our mistakes.

3. Why worthiness is key.

When you don´t believe you are worthy of a loving partner, you won´t allow one into your life. Your brain is always looking for evidence to prove you right and if your subconscious belief is “I am not worthy”, then it will either make sure that you stay single or it will present you with experiences that confirm that you are not worthy.

4. Why confidence attracts us all.

When you lack confidence, you lack attraction. Men and women are both equally attracted to individuals who believe in themselves. When you come across as desperate, you lose your potential partners attention. What the scarcity principle states is that options and opportunities that are rare, are more attractive. What that means is that when you come across as unique and you believe in yourself whilst being authentic, you will be perceived as desirable. Self confidence is a feeling that can be produced by thinking confidence thoughts. You do not need to be a naturally confident person, you can simply practice confidence.

5. How does your parents relationship influence your own?

Our parents relationship is our first introduction to the world of love. When we are born, we observe our surroundings “as is” without questioning. The way our parents interact with each other and us is absorbed rather than examined.

6. Is baggage from previous relationships holding you back?

Most of us have had one or more upsetting relationship experiences when it comes to our past. These wounds can root deep and hold us back from entering a new partnership or cause issues in an existing one.

7. What part plays male and female energy?

Being independent and successful as a woman is a fantastic trait, only when it comes to dating our energies can get in the way of our happiness. If a woman brings the same assertive energy to a date that she does to work, a man can feel as though they are not needed.

Walk towards the future you deserve.

If you saw yourself in one or more paragraphs, simply dig deeper and do some soul searching. Ask yourself: What do I need, to move past this? Journaling; meditating; speaking to a friend, therapist or coach could help you. We often assume that we need to deal with challenges on our own, yet that is far from the truth. If you wish to be supported through my “Change Your Love Life Forever Program” contact me here.

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